How Can We Mourn With Those Who Mourn?
October 30, 2026Recently, I was reminded of a time when tragedy struck in our church family, and as a result, we were suddenly in the midst of planning a very unexpected funeral. Through the sadness, I witnessed church members effortlessly jump into action to serve the grieving family. To say I was encouraged by these servant-hearted believers would not even begin to convey what I felt. In contrast, I often feel like I am fully unequipped to be of any use. Situations steeped in grief and mourning make me feel a powerful drive to reach out and an equally powerful inclination to…
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