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    Hurting

    When An Unsaved Loved One Dies

    The main speaker at a ladies’ retreat I recently attended gave an excellent message on keeping our focus on eternal things, and among the examples she shared was the story of her sister’s untimely passing. Although devastated, the speaker took…

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    Hurting

    How Can We Mourn With Those Who Mourn?

    This week tragedy struck in our church family, and as a result, we are in the midst of planning a very unexpected funeral. Through the sadness, I have witnessed church members effortlessly jump into action to serve this family. To…

  • woman's hands holding divorced husband's ring
    Marriage

    Divorce: Looking Through A Biblical Lens

    Divorce isn’t really a hot topic in 2021. In fact, it hasn’t been for years. Divorce is ho-hum. It’s everyday stuff. Par for the course. Expected. Even among Bible-believing Christians, divorce is just a regular part of life. They have…

  • woman in yellow jacket and backpack looking at child in blue jacket reaching toward her with small gulf in ground between them
    Hurting

    Mother’s Day When You Have A Bad Mom

    Mother’s Day is upon us once again. For many, maybe most, people it seems like a day to lavish mothers with flowers, candy, scented candles, obligatory church attendance, and well-meaning attempts at breakfast in bed. At church we give testimonies…

  • Hurting

    It’s Actually True: My Mom Is Dead

    *Update: I originally wrote this in the Summer of 2018. I needed to write it in order to process. I usually process out loud, but I couldn’t speak these words. Today, the 2 year anniversary of my mom’s death, I…